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    10/5/2009

    我可以自己決定嗎?

    唉,其實有一點兒小無奈,只是住在家裡就是這樣,也只能想辦法接受。

    恐龍爹與恐龍媽對一些事物還是存有極度的偏見,即使我問到當事人的意見與心得,他們還是覺得他們印象中對這個東西或這件事的刻板想法才是正確的,即使中間經過了 N 年。偶爾,對於我的一些事情,他們會說:「沒關係,你自己決定就好。」只是當我真的做了選擇,他們又覺得不好,又試圖想說服我接受他們的看法。今天又發生了一次,雖然表達了自己的喜好,但看起來他們仍是希望我照他們的意思,當他們走出我房間後,我心裡其實有個聲音在喊著:「如果你們都決定好了,何必要問我的意見?等我認真做了一些功課下了決定之後,卻來否定我的看法?」傷心

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    bohan chuwrote:
    我想壓 恐龍爹跟媽媽 跟一般的父母親都一樣 總是認為自己的方法跟經驗是最好的 所以他們勉為其難的一直跟你推銷 是值得聽的 但是這還是你自己的人生壓 因為你造著他們的方法做了 哪下一步呢 還是要繼續聽嗎 我想 成長就是得學著如何在不同的意見中 依然能夠照著自己的方法前行 他們也只是希望你走著安穩跟順利嚕 試圖去讓父母親了解妳的想法跟準備 一樣的也讓她們知道她們的關心妳有收到
    但 畢竟 這是妳的人生壓
    Oct. 13
    Cordéliawrote:
    我也是住家裡,偶而也會有這樣的困擾。
    但更困擾的是,當某些事爸媽商量卻沒有答案...感覺很徬徨無助
    Oct. 6

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